It has been 2 months since the passing of the love of my life to complications from treatment of stage 4 prostate cancer. He was in every way way the epitome of healthy living. He never smoked, he never touched alcohol, ate a healthy diet and exercised regularly, but it was not enough. The combo of radiation and chemo that were successful in putting him in remission caused severe pneumonitis that within the space of two harrowing weeks killed him. The hole in my heart may never heal but I have learned a lot during this journey. As a clinical performance specialist and a life long nurse, I know what great is. I can honestly say that the medical and nursing staff at Mountain View Rrgional in Las Cruces gave him great care and were some of the most compassionate people I have come across. They tried everything , but eventually we had to let him go. For everyone in healthcare, never think for a moment that what you do doesn’t matter. From a touch, a kind word, forcing that person at the bedside to try and sleep, to eat , it makes a difference. I will be forever grateful for how they helped me in a time of great personal suffering. This is what great doctors and nurses do. It’s not just the science but also learning that compassion, support and honesty is critical. Thank you to all the health care professionals out there doing what you do every day!
Hazel, I’m having a challenge finding the right words that don’t sound trite. You have always been one of my favorite people and I am very saddened by this news. Just know that you have my love and prayers as you move through this.
Hazel I am deeply sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you
My dear Hazel, I am so very sorry for your painful loss; how blessed that you shared your life with such a wonderful man. Your words of wisdom resonate........it is the seemingly small, kind and compassionate gestures provided in some of the most difficult times in one's life that we remember. Thank you for sharing this important reminder. Sending hugs....
Hazel - my heart 💔 goes out to you and your family! As a fellow Nurse, your tribute to him and your journey is a stark reminder of importance and gratitude that we have into the lives of those we serve. Your dedication, support and compassion has made an enormous contribution to all of us that were blessed to have you as our roll model and part of our lives!
Saddened to hear of your loss Hazel, how decent of you in your time of sorrow to think about thanking those who were there to care and help...
So sorry for your loss... thanks for the courage to share the reminder for all of us in healthcare.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
So sorry for your loss. As a caregiver, it brings great joy to me that you and your loved one were cared for in a time where skill and kindness were critical. Thank you for sharing your experience.
Hazel, oh my friend, I am so very sorry to hear this sad news and cannot imagine the heartache you are going through at this time. Please know I will be praying for you to have all the strength you need as you adjust to this difficult situation. Love and hugs, Christine
Oh Hazel, I’m so sorry to hear this. My heart goes out to you. I can only imagine the pain of losing someone so dear. Even in the midst of your grief, your gratitude and compassion shine through. I hope the love you shared and the memories you hold close offer you some comfort in the hard moments. Take care of yourself.